nanny 911是小伦介绍我的一个节目
之前在电视看过一些片断
可是真正看这个节目是几个星期前的事
人家说天下没有不疼孩子的父母
我相信每个父母都用自己认为最好的方式来教导自己的孩子
可是我想说的是
没有一出生就是很坏的孩子
只有不懂得把孩子教好的父母
Parenting 是一件很不容易的事
我常跟朋友说
看小孩就知道父母是怎么样的人
简单来说就是每个家庭的磁场
大人对小孩的作风一定要consistent
说什么就要做什么，而且是要立即见效，赏罚分明
不要以为小孩不明白你要的是什么，所以直接命令他们不用跟他们解释
看了几集的nanny 911，我发现三岁的小孩就会明白了，当然你要用适当的沟通方式
所以啊，在还未当父母之前
就得好好的学习parenting
不要等待孩子变坏了才来后悔莫及
p/s:
这里post的这一集是由nanny stella负责
本人比较不喜欢她的作风
在这里建议大家看nanny deb (我在这里embed不到)
nanny deb有22年的经验
当她和小孩说话的时候，你绝对会surprise为什么那些小孩都听她的
如果你也想看的话，请锁定每个星期五晚上8.30pm，ntv7的nanny 911。
6 comments:
i am watching the second episode of nanny deb, trying to see what u saw in it. it's actually a program born out of this film called nanny mcphee, a magical nanny who discipline the kids. i think.
the link u got, it's pretty much a reality show, there're some tips in it on parenting, but more to the show requirement, not educate. the part where the kid brother was suffocated freaks me out much.
我是没看，但我想到我跟staff讲过的一句话。
我说，我不是选学生，我是选家长。
就这样。
i think watching this show is more practical than reading parenting books, cause you get to see how to communicate with children, perform those time out and the response of the children that follow immediately. However, i admit that there is not much parenting tips in the show, you get to know most of the tactics that those nannies used after few episodes.
i used to say that when i was a teacher too. that parents are the source of problem. and i just realized very recently that it's a very cruel thing that 1 has to say.
i went back home then and see how much effort my mom put on educating my nephew,elder one. how myself get involve with it, using different tactics, soft and hard this and that. but he still turns out to be this very evil,selfish person who said he wants to just lie at home and watch tv the whole day. the underlying reason here maybe that he wanted to go stay with my sister, but seeing what he did how those vengeance he had is a very scary and awful thing.
so, i know a thing or 2 about this parenting stuff, and i had failed. the show, is too much of a show. like all reality show, they are well scripted, rehearsed. so can pick up one or 2 tips, but shouldnt learn from them, read instead.
i have this very wonderful sharing, u guys should go listen.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kVCSfJZK4_I
i watched another episode, about losing their dad in accident, that's rough.
but all those problems, wont happen if you have an asean mom, they are just too soft, not authoritative enough.
the link you shared is quite deep...hahaha..i need to listen few times to get the meaning..
i should make it clear that my point is, children should not blamed their parents for turning into whatever they are today, as i said, parents did the very best they can. but, the responsibility is on the shoulder of the parents for whatever their children turn to be.
may be you should let your sister communicate with your nephew since what he wants is to stay with her.
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